Monday, February 4, 2008

To Those....

It’s really tough being good,kind or morally upright these days. There’s so much hardship,many personal difficulties & an overwhelming temptation to do wrong that one almost understands when people falter. It’s simply based on the aforementioned that I’ve decided to dedicate this piece to people who I feel deserve some recognition. Although they are not famous or influential individuals, they are worthy of being appreciated for the things they’ve done and for what some of them, respectably, haven’t done. So here goes my personal appreciation:
1.To those ladies at the Modupe Cole Memorial Home for the Disabled & Mentally Challenged in Yaba.I constantly think of the day I paid a visit there last year. I could only last for about 45mins.However,most of these female workers have worked with the home's inhabitants for as long as 15 years.15 years of washing their clothes,cooking,cleaning up their mess, playing with them and consistently being there for these unfortunate children who are, quite honestly, difficult to look at. Many of us don’t even feel comfortable letting them touch us. That is a job many wouldn’t even do for $200,000 dollars a year. The Modupe Cole staff are a true gift to humanity.
2.To those young men and women who sell recharge cards & hawk goods in traffic each day. In the burning heat of Lagos, these desperate individuals would rather hustle through life legimately, instead of resort to crime like many have done as a quick fix for their hardship. I can’t imagine how it must feel selling plantain chips, credit, rat poison etc on the road for several hours each day. All the more difficult as they try to market these goods to men and women sitting comfortably in their air-conditioned flashy cars, while they themselves are almost boiling & fagged out from all the trekking. How many items do they successfully sell each day, after all that input? I must confess, that is commendable indeed.
3.Lastly, to those 3 nigerian strangers who helped me out when I had some car trouble many years ago. They worked for 2 hours trying to get the car to start, like their life depended on it.Shockingly, they refused to accept one kobo from me, despite my persistent offer. To the extent I thought they could be dubious people who had planned for their 'hidden' cohorts to waylay me shortly after the car would stop a few minutes later. It was too good to be true.With every attempt i made to convince them,they simply said ‘Don’t worry sir. We are okay’. Up till this minute,I can’t understand why they refused to take my money as a show of gratitude for their hardwork.In this country where nothing goes for nothing,even in some friendships.
To these people and everyone else who regularly does the right thing , I say a huge thank you. Your reward is definitely coming someday.Definitely.
In closing, my main prayer is that we are blessed with many more people like them in our society. Please answer me, dear Lord.

7 comments:

olaide said...

Nice One!
To the lady behind Heart of Gold hospice in Surulere and all other people taking care of Orphans, widows , etc
And to the MAN who helped us (toyin,bukkie,busayo and myself ) along Lagos Ibadan express road sometime in Sept'06--
the story
We ran into a notorious ditch and lost 2 tires our way back to Lagos from Ibadan ,4 chics wearing the same 'aso ebi' in a brand new corolla 2004 , imagine almost a 100 the same brand of car passed us from 5.30pm-6.30pm nobody stopped ooo ! those towing guys were asking for about 12,000 to Ogere imagine when there was no dead body in the car ! This Lagos!! ,Anyways a guy in a red Toyota starlet stopped , took our driver to Ogere fixed the tires and brought him back this was close to 7.10pm, we decided to drive behind the car , only for us to discover the guy had just one headlamp WHAT ! ! I prayed for the guy OMG I still do
I just said another word of prayer for him now

Chakams said...

Laide,about being stranded on the expressway,you guys were extremely fortunate to have d Toyota starlet guy come to ur rescue...an angel in disguise,i guess..

kshorty1 said...

John 15:13 says "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends."

The fact Jesus Christ died for our sins is well known. But there's something else that He did which amazes me. He washed His disciples' feet (John 13:4-6). After He did this He told them that whoever wants to be on top needs to serve others. Giving of your time, energy, money, resources is what service is all about.

Putting others needs before one's needs is something we need to begin to do in this country. Putting your needs before others is what makes people jump queues, pay bribes to get bumped up a line, drive against traffic, jump red lights etc. It is simply selfish behaviour.

With all the things we experience, it's a breath of fresh air to know that there are still selfless people out there. As long as such people exist, there's still hope for this country and indeed the world.

Anonymous said...

interesting u shdnt have stopped at no. 3

Chakams said...

@mona,thanks...Wanted it to b apt...and those 3 sets of people i mentioned adequately drove home my point,i believe...

Anonymous said...

well ure so lucky chakams.when i read bout stuff like this bout nigerians i'm so touched.der ar still good pple amongst us.its amazing.my cousin had a similar experience but they wer thieves who pretended to offer help at first.youre just too lucky.

Anonymous said...

I am very impressed with your blog buddy,and it really brings us to understand the various intricasies of life.Life is so short,and we should all strive to do our very best for humanity.One thing we all should realise,is that the only certainty on this earth is death.We must all contribute our little quota to humanity and be that guardian angel,when we can.